lying is the most fun a band dude can have without taking his clothes off..

I need to know what or who goes through these lyricists minds when they write stuff like "Is it still me that makes you sweat? Am I who you think about in bed, When the lights are dim and your hands are shaking, As you're sliding off your dress?" or even "Why don't you show me the little bit of spine, You've been saving for his mattress, I only want sympathy in the form of you, Crawling into bed with me" ...