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y is cheating so normalised?! nd i am sooo sick of the "nonchalant" label, IT IS NOT COOL TO IGNORE YOUR PARTNER1!!!!!1! like cmoon,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
like wtf is a talking stage ?! it's like the "3 to 4 business days" of romance !
and now ur constantly stressed and feel like u have to constantly force flirting and being interesting to that person which hinders an organic connection and bond from growing!
WHAT HAPPENED TO THE SUDDEN REALISATION?!!! THE SHYNESS AND THE TENTATIVE, SOUL CRUSHIN BEAUTY OF IT ALL?? tch. tch tch tchh.
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DI ☆ﾟ
Its all sooooo disheartening but my friends relationship gives me hope theyre so sweet and respectful i love them fr (i am mad w envy)
DI ☆ﾟ
Its all sooooo disheartening but my friends relationship gives me hope theyre so sweet and respectful i love them fr (i am mad w envy)
Taylor :3
its sooo frustrating. i have friends that having "talking stages" that last monthsss >:( i dont understand it! and the cheating is so unnecessary. if you feel THAT way towards another person then break up with your partner or talk to them about polyamory its not harddd
freshmeat
ive never been in a relationship but once i was 'talking' to this guy (i put this in quotes bc it wasnt really a talking stage) and he immediately tried to flirt with me and all of this crap like i just got to know you CHILLL and then he didnt get the hint that i didnt like him and when we ended up both stop talking for a few months he tries to hmu again and do the same stuff
like wht????
Anthony
I'm so glad I'm taking my relationship with my gf slow. I see so many people rushing to find another person after the person they're talking to slightly messes up. And I'm so lucky I did have that sudden realization of "omg, I actually like this person and I wanna date them" AFTER knowing them for a while. Relationships now are based on appearance, especially with dating apps like Tinder and Bumble and such being so popular. It's so sad :(
thats what im sayinn!!! dating apps have fr mellowed shit down to surface level bullcrap its literally the worst
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°Cirice°¬
It's amazing how many week-long relationships I've seen. It's like-WHY?! HOW CAN YOU EXPECT A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP IF YOU WERE NOT SERIOUS IN THE PAST?!?!?!?!
ГОРЯЧАЯ ЛИНИЯ
People have forgotten how to be human. I've been in such a healthy relationship and that's supposed to be normal in society, but nowadays you have to be lucky to find someone who doesn't act as if like a jerk.
Kuba ^o^
i get the same feeling when i see tiktoks about like 3 months rules or icks. like ??? have u never felt love before?! thankfully idk ppl who think like that irl so i can live in my own bubble without situationships and talking stages
spoiltramen
YESS THIS
ppl are making relationships so difficult and it's messing with my MIND. why do they overcomplicate or excuse bad behaviors in relationships???
sumeowss >_<
talking stage is the stupidest thing ive ever heard like WTF do u mean you need 1 month to decide if u wanna keep talking to me, another to decide if u wanna take it srs w me and ANOTHER to think abt it! likeeee bffr!
Coyuyin
FOR REAL LIKE-
For what there are so many 'rules'?! I'm just trying to love someone, not to play goddamn monopoly >:(
Lele :)
FR, THE WAY THAT NOW ALL OF THE RELATIONSHIPS ARE JUST TO PRETEND ON INSTAGRAM LIKE ??????????? WHAT HAPPENED TO THE ACTUALLY TRUE LOVE?!?!?!?!?!?
Lele :)
FR, THE WAY THAT NOW ALL OF THE RELATIONSHIPS ARE JUST TO PRETEND ON INSTAGRAM LIKE ??????????? WHAT HAPPENED TO THE ACTUALLY TRUE LOVE?!?!?!?!?!?
Khail
AGREED.
+ What TF are situationships??? DO YOU LIKE ME OR NOT, WHO DECIDED IT WAS A GOOD IDEA TO GO ON DATES FOR 4 MONTHS STRAIGHT BUT STILL BE "FRIENDS" WITH EACHORHER???
I'm going to end up alone with 50 cats when I grow up, I'm serious
so true, at least i'll have my cats i guess
by juniper; ; Report
Cats wouldn't throw you away after four months and they wouldn't be constantly telling you that you're not their only owner..
by °Cirice°¬; ; Report
bippe :3
REALL i feel like todays kind of love is just so messed up LIKE WHAT HAPPENED TO ACTUALLY LOVING EACHOTHER??? i hate shit like "icks" n stuff bc ur fr telling me ur gonna fall out of love w someone because they sweat or smth. like what happened to just loving someone for who they were rather than having them abide with all ur 67 standards. also i hate it how playing other people is SOOO NORMALIZED NOW. like i thought we all thought that shit was fucked up
BRO I DONT UNDERSTAND ICKS .. ITS ALWAYS THE DUMBEST SHIT 2......!!!
by apple d3ar; ; Report
keia ♱
you're so right because its so weird of how people can casually cheat on each other and jump from person to person like its normal. its just disgusting tbh :[
NO HONESTLYYY ! like nobody wants to take it seriously itz fr a game atp :/
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Ithix
DUDE ROMANCE IS BORING!!!!!!
ITS A CRAZY CONCEPT IMO HEAR ME OUTTTTTTT . i'm cupioromantic so i dont get the lil feelings often ! BUT WHEN I DO WOWOWOWW
by apple d3ar; ; Report
YK WHAT GETS ME? WHEN PPL IN RELATIONSHIPS WILL GET MAT AT THE OTHER BC THEY HAD A DREAM AB THEM CHEATING LIKE?????
by Ithix; ; Report
STOPP YEAH I FORGOT SOME PPL DO THAT DUM SHIT
by apple d3ar; ; Report
YR POUTING IN YR SLEEP IM WAKING STILL YAWNING, WE'RE PROVING TO EACH OTHER THAT ROMANCE IS BORING 🗣️🗣️🗣️
by woodlouse; ; Report