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please know im very blunt and i have a hard time telling whats appropriate to say and whats not, this usually is not intentional, and if i ignore your message for a long time i am most likely unsure of how 2 react to it.
im okay with:
asking to call ( just dont get mad if i say no. I have social anxiety )
jokingly being mean
hugs or touch ( as long as its not inappropriate, but, i will let you know if this changes )
asking to draw my characters / making me art
asking for my music recommendations
asking me if im okay
nsfw jokes ( but i will let you know if you went too far )
long dms/yapping ( if you ask for permission :) )
venting ( if you ask, dont be mad if i cant help you the best though , im 13 and mentally unwell myself )
you asking for more boundaries that arent stated here!
thin ice:
yelling at me
using typing quirks i cant read and refusing to give translations ( H1, cursive or fancy fonts )
dissing my interests for no reason (?? bro who hurt u 💀)
flirting ( in a serious way )
random tramua dumping (? im not a therapist, im your friend.)
saying youre a bigger fan of something i like ( when it comes down to things i like i am EXTREMELY defensive )
constantly talking about my race/sexuality in a negative way but you pass it off as a "joke"
CONSTANT spamming
telling me to "get over" my mood when im sad or overwhelmed ( i know i need to, but sometimes i have deep emotional moments that seem so out of control and you saying that doesnt really help)
talking over me or not wantinh to listen to me
ill block you if you do this:
you send me bad or inappropriate imagery
advances onto me ( im ace )
you say racist/homophobic/transphobic things but you try to pass it off like you werent being serious
talking about me inappropriately
youre using me for benefits ( my humor, money, etc )
i dont expect people to bend over and use tone tags for my own benefit, however if i ask you i don't understand if youre being sincere or not and you refuse to elaborate... we probably wont get along well anyways.
misgender me
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