public spaces, the internet, and menaces

i've come to the realization recently that to abide by anarchist ideals means utilizing those ideals with respect to those around me as well, and this means not subjecting others to try to conform to my comfort. by which i mean: if i enter a space where people are doing things that make me uncomfortable, it's up to be to establish my own boundaries and leave if i need to, as opposed to voicing my displeasure upon the others present in hopes that they'll change their behavior.

this is a tricky thing when people are doing actually reprehensible things (i don't mean crimes so much as putting others in danger or violating this sort of anarchist idea of interpersonal navigation). there are a ton of variables that play into your decision making with how you want to proceed, such as how attached you are to the space you're in and the people in it, how much the space is private vs. public, how much you want to defend the space you're in, etc. the answer becomes a lot more clear cut when you can identify how much of a private vs. public space you're in. if someone is being an ass in your own private space (your local community, your house, a private discord), you can establish boundaries by either talking with them to get them to stop or, if they refuse to stop, kicking them out. but what about a public space?

i abide by the notion that everyone deserves compassion and a chance at redemption. you can never force a person to change; that ability has to come from the other person to even want to change in the first place. compassion for others can involve removing someone who's a danger from the vicinity, even in a public space. it's difficult to help everyone, but those people who put others in danger deserve help, too. class status, marginalization, trauma, social upbringing, and many other factors can influence a person to the point where they harm others, and while they're responsible for their own actions, there are so many factors out of their control.

so, where's the internet in all of this? certainly there are a few parts that are private spaces, such as the aforementioned private discord servers, but the bulk of it is more or less a public space. nothing you post is in a vacuum. and so, the question is, how much do you try to oust people who you consider to be a public menace if the sphere you exist within isn't as private as you may think it is? how much do you try to stick your neck out for others within the context of a website that nearly anyone on earth can access?


i definitely do believe there are issues with certain adult topics being way too accessible for minors, less to do with the accessibility and more to do with the current culture surrounding those topics. ao3 is one that gets focused on often; i've seen so many writers producing pedophillic content and saying they're justified in posting it because they have trauma. you yourself blocking those authors doesn't do anything to help minors who can read that material and internalize it as socially acceptable, but ao3's purpose is to be an archive that doesn't discriminate content, and as long as the appropriate warnings are in place, it's up to the reader to navigate at their own discretion. so, what's the solution? block minors from the website? minors will always lie about their age to access age restricted content; they've been doing it since forever. require official documentation/id to access it? that information can be used for profiling and ultimately restricting other "undesirable" content such as queer art (see virginia's recently passed law requiring state id to access pornography websites). banning those authors? that's against ao3's vision, and banning specific content opens the door for moderation against other "undesirable" content (see above).

ultimately, restricting freedom on any side isn't the right path. not only is it against anarchist values, but it either won't work or will create a system that leaves other parties vulnerable. what do we do, then? unfortunately, i don't have a good answer to that. the best i can come up with is to let minors go about their business but genuinely discuss the issues of that content with them. let them make informed decisions, build trust with them, have their backs, and ensure they have good support systems. from what i've seen, many times they become victims due to lack of support in their lives. by creating stronger communities, we create stronger defenses for everyone in them.


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