Men in superhero fandoms

The (Majority of)men in superhero fandoms are so insufferable??? I feel like any popular superhero show with an underlying message gets overrun with “yeah okay but this character will beat this character in a fight” and its like they only watched the fight scenes of she show and didnt pay attention to the plot at ALL 

I also feel like the only time they respect women characters are when they have strong powers?? Like a weak woman character will do the exact same thing a strong woman character will do but they will call the weak one a bitch and hate on her but the strong woman is valid bcs????