Finding what's good and cool about me

Can anyone here relate? Recently, more like a month after my girlfriend broke up with me and I lost many friends, I've found it super hard to find things that make me good. What I mean is how the guilt and the self-hate from all this drama can make it hard to think on the bright side.

I've been discovering new interests, trying a new look, and thinking more deeply into my good traits and qualities. I've only really just now started to pay more attention, so I'm posting half to share my experience and half to get some.