Stay Safe Online

     I have recently seen some older individuals floating around on Spacehey and I want to say BE SAFE AND CAREFUL when online.  This individual has some stuff stated on their profile that I do not particularly agree with.  They were saying they believe in God and yet they also stated in their blog or their about me something rather that nobody is your friend and nobody cares about your feelings.  First off if you're going to say you believe in God and then turn around and say some horrid stuff like that, that is just feeding a fire that has been fueling for some time now that needs to be extinguished.  If no one else is going to tell you then I most certainly will:

- I AM YOUR FRIEND and I DO CARE ABOUT YOUR FEELINGS

- I am proud of you for waking up and deciding to face another day.  

- You are stronger than you believe, know, or feel.

- You are an inspiration to someone out there you may not even be aware of what your presence does for a stranger.

- You never know what someone may be facing when they are behind closed doors so for that, we need to be respectful ALWAYS not just sometimes. If you are gonna be one that wants to say hurtful things, then you aren't actually doing anything to help the problem you are making it worse and that should be taken up with a mental health doctor in a counselor chair somewhere if you really think saying bad things to hurtful things is ever an ok thing to do.  

-  A grown ass adult and you tell a social media platform with adults facing problems with their mental health and a bunch of teenagers and tweens trying to just find a place in this world growing into themselves and evolving every day, you feel like waking up telling everyone "Hey btw nobody cares about you and nobody cares about your feelings"  Then I guess I am a nobody then and if you think I am going to accept your friends request after that, then you are not even in the right of mind.  This world is hurtful enough and you wanna add more pain, hurt, sorrow, despair, and negativity into it?  Any changes you want in your life literally all starts with you and that is what you feel like doing...hurting others?  I don't think so and I won't have that energy around me whatsoever and I will forewarn others of that energy myself.  

- If you feel like adding a list full of females and you are saying things like that, you need to leave the ladies alone.  They have enough on their plates without someone manipulating them into thinking no one will ever care and no one will ever be their friend.  I have had a boyfriend that used to be in that same mindset and that is what he did to manipulate me into staying with him and that is sickening.

** Yes so I dated a guy back when I was 15 and 16 years old and he always told me if I ever dumped him, he would end his life in some very tragic or dreadful way.  I will call out every disgusting creeper that tries to pull that on a young, innocent, unsuspecting, or naive individual whomever they may be.  These types of sickos will tell you that you will never find anyone out there like them, they will tell you that no one will love you the way they do, you'll never be as happy without them, and nobody is gonna be your friend, and nobody is ever gonna care about your feelings.  

Please understand and note, these types of people say that because in reality, that is how they actually think and feel OR they are very toxic individuals and they're mad at the world for how unfair the world has been to them and will go as far as to manipulate your mind and emotions to either gain friends, connections, or a romantic interest.  This is where it gets sketchy because you won't suspect it.  It will be disguised with you thinking "oh they're only talking about society in general"  They aren't mature enough mentally or emotionally to hold themselves accountable for their words or actions, they are not mature enough mentally or emotionally to have a healthy relationship.  They will disguise it in such ways, you won't even know that is the name of their game and the madness in their motives.  So please, please, please be careful.  Always trust your intuition, if your gut instinct tells you there is something not right with someone or something, then there isn't.  Believe it and do not snub it off.  This individual I saw a ton of what seemed to be female (I don't know all of their pronoun preferences which is why I say this) on this individuals page, saying manipulative and contradicting things, and it took me back to a flashback when this type of thing was circulating around me.  I get the vibe this person is a predator so everyone especially the ladies, be cautious.  Not everyone will always have your best interest at heart, not everyone will care about your well-being.  Just be careful and cautious everyone.  Too much is happening and too much is going on and we need to be alert at all times.   Please know your worth and know the difference between the manipulative ones who want to sway you to believe and think what they want you to vs. the ones who really do care.  We all need to be more for each other and help make it safer for each other.**