let's talk about love life

to those who have finally found their love life, I wish you both well till your wedding day and till forever after :)

and to those who have not, it's okay.

love is a big responsibilities that's gonna come with complications. once you took it, there's no turning back now. you can be silly little goose when it comes to having a moment together but when it comes to serious shit, you need to be mature about it because one wrong move and you will ended up losing everything.

love is about an opportunity to learn more about each other and how you both defined love in your own way. you gotta keep finding a reason to love her/him everyday and find out why does she/he holds so much value in your heart. I've seen many people broke up, just a week after relationship, due to no fun or no feelings anymore but you gotta know that this stuff happened because you don't know what the hell you truly want for your heart. it means there's still a long way for you to learn more about yourself and accepting the truth about yourself before accepting another person's vows to fulfill her/his life. 

you must not be a different people when it comes to love life. don't do stupid stuff that doesn't even reflect you, just so that you could impress her with your theatric performance cuz all that acting will be uncovered in a matter of time, whether sooner or later. all that matters is just be yourself and the right person will come to you at the right time.

to be honest, it's better to wait for a single person that truly loves you, even if it is a long time, rather than a quick fantasy love act that's gonna leave you all depressed and emotional while doubting yourself whether you are not good enough or just horrible?

just live your own life, create a better future, do something cool once in a worthwhile (I want to learn skateboard, I guess) and most importantly, be kind :)

kind people deserves a kind lover, true? <3

I wish you all the best of luck for years to come !