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Ok opinions are very welcome.
earlier this year i met some guy and he was flirting hard and it became an obsession on my end but i knew all he wanted was friends until he didnt and said he wanted to be with me. but he said that if he got with me i had to allow him to be flirty with other women. i allowed this for the fact that i was obsessed with this man. he broke up with me and got with a friend of mine. and we cut communication after that out of respect of his relationship. a few weeks later he texts me and starts flirting again but at the time i was talking to someone and was happy with the guy i was with. and he made some threats that made me severely uncomfortable which made me block him. after about a month or two of zero communication he texts me from a new number and said "merry christmas, hows your relationship" i told him what happened and that we broke up and he gets all protective and is starting to flirt again. he texted me and asked me to be his gf again but this time without any other girls just me and him. he hurt me so much that this sent me into a freak out and i expressed that i absolutley hate him for what he did, how he made me feel, and how hurt i was. he then told me that he wants me and will do anything to gain my trust back. i still said no and that he wont ever get that side of me again because of the way things happened. but he still says he claims me and that i cant post certain things because im still "his" which makes me extremely uncomfortable. and he has threatened to hurt the dude that i am talking to and he knows that im not his so why is he claiming me?
the question i have is was i in the wrong for rejecting him or did i make the right choice?
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xxvviqluci
Hey, I wish the best for you but there are a lot of red flags scattered around. if someone just randomly entered back into your life with "Merry Christmas" it's just a trick to keep toying with you and that's all he's really doing toying with you. his messing with your emotions and you keep on replying to him whenever he magically comes back just gives him that reassurance that you are still within his grip. I hope you know that you made the right choice of rejecting him because the way he acted when he was with you and hell even without is concerning. Him dating YOUR FRIEND would make me never talk to him even with that little "merry christmas".
Him threatening the guy you were talking to at the time is just him realizing that you are falling from his grasp and he doesn't has power over you now. and that's the reason his trying to so call "claim you" or what that shit is.
AND DON'T YOU EVER TALK TO THIS MAN AND CALL THE COPS IF HE TRIES TO CONTACT YOU.
THOSE THREATS THAT HE MADE TO MIGHT BE EMPTY BUT TAKE THEM SERIOUSLY.
garfield
you're a certified side chick