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Why Does It Have To Be Like This

        I hate how the word is so sexualised and also about romance. I have been in love and other things but man, it's not the only thing in the world, there's so much more. I hate how every single part of our lives is sexualised to the max, also how that sexualisation leads to fetishization and objectification and other things. The amount of sex related things we see and hear in our daily lives just disgusts me, it's such a futile thing. I think sex is totally normal, sexual attraction is completely fine, and everything, it's fucking natural, we're animals with hormones and shit but we also have a like... Big brain, lol. We can think, we are rational... Most of the times... So why not focusing on other things instead... There's so many things you cloud do instead and think about. I'm so sick of hanging around other guys my age and the only jokes they have are sexual ones, that's one of the reasons why most of the girls are so much more preferable to hang out with... And the fact that children can have such an easy access to that type of thing?! There's kids that are addicted to porn at really really young ages, it destroys their childhood and innocence. They should be thinking about go out and ride their bikes, drawing, playing football, just being kids and not worrying about the future, and I'm not only talking about the sexual part, also about how everything is so centred around romance. A boy and a girl are friends? Well, they must be dating!!!!! Something happens because of something and it's automatically like romanticised. Why is the main thing in people's lifes their partner? Why is it that so many people think of having a romantic relationship as something that will solve all their problems and they only objective they have with their lives? I hate how our society revolves so much around this. Friendships can last so much more time and be so much stronger than the majority of romantic relationships. Not talking about how the introduction to sex and all of that at such an early age can change someone's life, how a kid, then becomes a teen, experiments too much with sex and "romance" and then because they have done such things at such an young age they don't really have any way of expressing their feelings or to even see how they feel about someone, they become almost indifferent to it... I hate how things are. I myself have had a not so good experience with porn and other things at a very young age on the internet and I would be so much better if that had never happen. I cloud talk about this topic for a lot of time... It's just something that frustrates me a lot and I normally don't like to use the word hate but I can surely say I hate this about the world and or society or whatever... I hate how we just live in a society lol. 


        My first lenguage is not english so sorry about any splealing mistakes... Also, I feel like this is probably my messiest blog ever because this originaly was a bulletin so sorry about that...


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adam

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dude i totally agree.

it's so weird how romance and sexuality play such a big part in our lives when, sure, it can, but does it really need to?

i'm aware that it's a normal human feeling or whatever, but it feels so in our faces at most times, and as someone who feels like little to no attraction to anyone in every way, i feel almost ostracized (did i use that right i don't really know) from conversations about things like that.. very weird world we live in!


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𖤐 ray

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so real

also as a teen who had twitter when i was 9 i can confirm do not let kids on those apps i should not have seen literal prn at that age


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