HOW WOULD I DESCRIBE MY PARENTS?

How would I describe my parents?

Hmmmm….how can I describe my parents honestly, if I was still a kid I would sit here and tell you they are amazing parents….but I am not a kid anymore and my parents are not the parents I used to know. So bare with me and I will tell you all about it. So as I am in my adulthood my parents have decided to not want to talk to me or try to have a relationship with me no matter how much I try I am always the one giving 100% and they don’t give nothing. I can tell you I could go 6 months or longer with not hearing from my mom and dad. When I do hear from them its my mom sending me a message on facebook to tell me someone died or to ask me for a favor its not just to see how I am doing or what not. As much as it hurts me to say I do love my parents more than anything. I just wish they had the same love for me if I am being honest. For instance around thanksgiving this year they told me 3 days before thanksgiving that it is at my brother's house I said I cant make it because I had plans with my inlaws then thanksgiving comes around and everyone is calling me and giving me issues making me feel like I am this horrible daughter/sister because I had plans with my inlaws at my house like what am I supposed to do? So to be honest, everytime my parents hurt me my husband has to pick up the pieces of my heart and that isn’t fair to him. Why should he keep doing that why do I always allow my parents to hurt me? But like I said I do love them and I always will but at a distance. Because I just cant take the disappointment and hurt anymore. Am I wrong for saying that?