Road to Happiness – 1

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First rule to confidence and happiness:

STOP SEEKING APPROVAL.

You guys will be like "I wanna be confident" "How do I become confident" You'll watch countless videos and then repeat the same bad habits. You realize in order to be confident you have to actually be confident in more than just your appearance!! Your thoughts and ideas count too!

STOP. SEEKING. APPROVAL. FROM. OTHERS. VALIDATE YOURSELF.

"I wonder if they'll like this" STOP.

 "Do you think this looks good on me?" STOP.

ALSO not to mention oversharing about your personal life and EXPECTING VALIDATION. Once again, STOP.

Also!! Stop wanting, craving, looking for validation from MEN. HELL NO GET THAT OUTT OF HERE!!

"I feel like I never get compliments from guys". Seriously. Compliment yourself. I don't care if it sounds dumb. DO IT. It’s going to help you strip your mind from this messed up mentality of "do they like this" "do I look good enough"

"WILL THEY LIKE ME?"

STOP.