current drama i guess

well okay currently (theres been a lot of drama this year so far so im just doing drama from the last week with one of my friends) theres this girl and were like bffs right? lets say her name is A. we usually get along pretty well but ever since i started dating my bf and stuff shes been like weird about him i guess. during the summer we were beefing like all the time because i guess i was spending too much time with him and making her (and other people that she said talked to her about it, which i asked everyone else in our group and everyone else said they didnt care and were all good with me and my bf holding hands and kissing. except for one guy but hes a dick and no one likes him anymore. ill get into that in another blog or smth) uncomfortable. which i think is absolutely ridiculous honestly because like we werent really going further than kissing and if we were it was out of sight (further than kissing as in making out) anyways context out of the way. my school went on a field trip the other week and i had made plans to sit with my bf during the ride there and back, A says lets ride together, but since the seats only hold two people i say why dont u sit with AZ? (another friend in our group) and she was complaining i guess and wanting to sit with me. but im not gonna ditch my bf, especially if we already had plans (that goes for everyone, if you want to make plans with me then do it before other people cause if im already hanging out with one person im not gonna ditch them for another) so she sits with AZ and all is well i guess cause when we get there everyones all talking and everything and theyre in their pair and me and my bf are talking. when we get into our groups though, my class splits up and goes into other classes, and since my bf is in my class, we go together and into the same group as A. while were looking at the museums artifacts and stuff, me, my bf and A were all talking and making jokes and stuff and just having a good time. and after what happened all summer i thought that this was finally gonna be when they connect or at least be cordial to each other. and honestly they were, anyways we go to lunch and me, my bf, A and AZ were all chilling there, his mom was a chaperone and i was talking to her and stuff and that didnt really involve A but she was still making conversation and i was responding and everything. then after lunch were supposed to go to watch this guy speak about his experiences and the order we sit in is my bf, me, A, AZ. and while the guy is talking we dont really pay attention and my and A are talking, and im also trying to talk to my bf, but eventually A stops talking to me and starts paying attention so i start paying attention. the problem really starts when we are getting off the bus when we get back to the school. A’s crush was sitting in front of us and stuff and like teenagers do, we making jokes, i say “omg A look” quietly to her and she gives me a little smirk and stuff. and then were on the ride home, we dont really talk during the ride or anything, but when we get off A’s crush was standing in front of my bf and he turns around and whispers to me “would it be funny if i took his airpod?” and i laugh cause duh thats funny to think about, but A’s crush and my bf have literally never talked before and i know my bf wouldnt do that. i tell him to tell that to A and she gives me a weird ass look like im insane or whatever. she texts me like “hey can u guys not do that iys really embarrassing and i dont wanna be embarrassed around my crush” so i say ill talk to my bf about it and i tell him what she said and he just said “okay” and honestly im okay with that because A usually tends to blow things out of proportion and be a little dramatic about stuff like that, but then she is like ignoring me the next day and i was really confused, and shes snapping me wayyyyy less and i was REALLY confused cause i know how she is about snap, and after about three days i ask her like wtf is up and if i did anything else to mske her mad at me, genuinely concerned. and she tells me pretty much what shes been telling me for the last four months like “iys not fun when you have ur bf around and i dont like how highly you think of him and this friendship has been so stressful on me, u ditch me all the tome to hang with him and we never hang out, and honestly i just need some space away from you for a bit blah blah blahh bullshit” cause like???? first of all me and A had had a sleep over like three days before the field trip and we hang out ALLLLLL THE FUCKING TIME EVEN WHEN IM NOT FEELING UP TO HANGING OUT BECAUSE I LIKE HANGING OUY WITH HER, i rarely ever hang out with my bf and also at the time i thought he was going to move away due to financial reasons and i dont have my license so i would like rarely ever get to hang out with him so of course i would wanna hang out with him til then. (the problem is also fixed now so he can stay at the school and everything so thats good) so i text her back and im like okay sorry not my intention, is there something we can do to fix this in the long term? this bitch leaves me on delivered for like 12 hours while posting on her account, the responds just to say “cant think of anything rn” and leaves me on opened when i respond with “okay” so currently we have been not talking at all for like the last week or so, almost two. but thats okay because honestly im tryna protect my peace, lord its just too much. especially when im trying to hang out with the group all together, A is very extroverted and she tends to be the one controlling the conversation so i can never really get my piece in. i can def update this if anything else happens tldr; friend needs space from me because she thinks our friendships is too stressful for her and she can never get time with me because i like my bf too much, even tho i hang out with her all the time. actually much more than i hang out with my bf 😭😭😭