it is literally so fucking difficult to live without being fueled by spite and pettiness. I am trying so hard. I love loving, but goddammit do I feel like I need to constantly have the last word. I want to give my love towards all things and people, and that means giving it to myself and people I do not like as well. It's not satisfying. It's hard. But I feel like this is the best outcome for me. ... » Continue Reading
weird title but you'll get what I mean. Twitter isn't a reliable source of information in terms of getting a good grasp on queer people as a whole. I keep seeing so many like 14 year old baby gays try to denounce other queer people for the way they identify and talk about themselves, so just stop. You aren't an authority on others, so shut the fuck up and keep it to yourself. Queer is not a slur, ... » Continue Reading
I have accidentally fallen into the trap of becoming a "music person" and I cant believe I'm going to say it, but it's amazing. I've been dramatically branching out my music taste to the point of absolute obscurity (not that liking obscure musicians and bands makes you better than anyone, because it doesn't!) as well as listening to more popular music artists in genres I typically don't dive into ... » Continue Reading