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★ proship hate

TW !!!!! MENTIONS OF SA



So I've been seeing a ongoing of new accounts / current accounts being proshippers, and I've decided to make this blog because I wanna explain why proshipping is well.. WRONG! ^_^ 


Proshipping is when someone ships characters together in a problematic sense (ex. adult x child) and fully supports people shipping such problematic things.


Lots of proshippers say that they 'proship' because it is their coping mechanism and I'm here to say that is just a excuse to justify shipping technically ILLEGAL matter. If you actually think about it for a moment, proshipping can't be a 'coping mechanism' because wouldn't that just make you feel worse about the trauma or harm you went through? Also, you basically having it as your 'coping mechanism' is probably just gonna make you normalize it even more and you could even pass down such abuse.

My experience :

I personally have gone through trauma in the past of such subject, and anytime I see anything of 'proshipping' I literally just wanna cry. It makes me feel worse, it makes me relive those horrible things. How do people not get that all of THAT is just so gross and wrong? Also if you think in facts, everything they are shipping is ILLEGAL, even if it's fictional. Which erm is gross and wrongggg!!!! 


Not much else to say except proshippers are freaks and need serious mental health. Asap.


OH ALSOOO!!! HERE ARE SOME EMOJIS TO LOOK OUT FOR IF SOMEONE IS A PROSHIPPER / COMSHIPPER / ETC!!

🍓🍰  - proship

🍖🌈 - proship 

🍋🌈 - profiction (literally just proshipping in a sense)

🌸🌙 - comshipper

🐰🎀 - lolicon

🍯🧸 - shotacon

📚☕ - age gap

(there's way more, these are just the most common ones) 



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ᴗᴗ  aether 𝜗𝜚

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And then the proshippers say shit like “oh well its not affecting irl!!” Then in what world r u healing?


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silver!! 🌈🚢

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hi! this is straight up misinfo and not cool. proshipping is not illegal and can be used as a coping mechanism.

The only "illegal" part of proshipping may be something like l*licon, but this is completely legal.
"It's only considered child p***ography if the person in the images or videos is indistinguishable from an actual child. This means that an ordinary person who is viewing the depiction would reasonably conclude the depiction is of an actual minor who is engaged in s**ually explicit conduct (18 U.S.C. § 2256). However, it does not include visual depictions that are drawings, cartoons, paintings, sculptures, or computer-generated images. Under 18 U.S.C. 2252, depiction must actually be child p*** with real minors." Source : https://www.egattorneys.com/federal-crimes/federal-child-pornography

As for coping, "Many of those who reported trauma and hardship talked about kink as a way to relive that hardship with a sense of healing and mastery over it. For example, a sexual assault survivor might initially feel afraid, weak, and powerless during their actual sexual assault. However, simulating that assault via consensual roleplaying with a trusted partner can help them feel powerful (because they consensually negotiated and agreed to it, and can use a safeword to stop the scene), strong (because they feel they can get through whatever physical pain or intensity comes their way), and brave, for facing what can often be dark times in their past head-on." This can easily apply to proships as well. Source : https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/standard-deviations/201805/growing-up-kinky-research-shows-how-kink-identity-is-formed

if this content personally harms you, thats totally fine, but theres no reason for you to harass or be rude to those who enjoy it. please be thoughtful about what you post and dont spread misinfo for internet brownie points!!


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why not? i dont see an issue with people finding community with others that share their likes or coping mechanisms, it can be cathartic

by silver!! 🌈🚢; ; Report

those are definitely valid concerns but realistically if all parties are being responsible then neither of those should happen. comshippers should tag the things they post properly so that survivors are able to block those terms (which, honestly, shouldnt even be necessary. its typically hard to find that kind of content unless youre looking for it, and even then its still hard. comshippers usually try to keep themselves hidden to avoid harassment, and also to not trigger survivors that dont want to see it). and children shouldnt even be on the internet in the first place if theyre young or immature enough to assume any action in a drawing they see on the internet is ok to do in real life (and, again, its hard to find anyways). thats their parents fault. there have been cases of pedophiles grooming children into that kind of thing, but those kind of people are not welcomed in the overall community and honestly would groom children anyway. people should aim their harassment towards actual pedophiles and pro-paras instead of people that just enjoy fiction for fiction.

by silver!! 🌈🚢; ; Report

comshippers shouldnt do that, but i dont think a couple of peoples mistakes should mean that noone can find community with comshipping online ever. ive neve seen that happen in the community, so i think that just informing those people that they shouldnt do that should be enough. and like i said, that content is extremely hard to find (unless they tag it incorrectly, which is rare) so if a kid does slip past their parents onto the internet (which wouldnt even happen if they are being raised properly), its highly unlikely theyd find it

by silver!! 🌈🚢; ; Report

liz violet

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this whole proship and anti ship is VERY new to me, being someone who's been raised with the adage "ship and let ship," and like tell them if they mistagged their shit. Or learn to use filters to take out my problematic ships. I totally get why you hate this "proshitters," but... i feel like this an adult fandom user vs. younger fandom user thing? yeah i just learn to use filters and let the wierdos roam, as long as they dont do anything illegal and the algorithm doesn't make me see it.

i know kids in the comments will immediately be like "IF YOUR NOT AGAINST PROSHIP YOU ARE ONE, YOU SICKO!" but like these are the fandom rules ive been raised with: https://www.reddit.com/r/FanFiction/comments/4sdjq9/what_are_the_rules_of_fandom/


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Same here especially with the emoji combos, those are SUPER new. Ohwell though I'm not really on the part of the internet where this gets talked about a lot anymore

by oklunch; ; Report

proship is truly just "ship and let ship"

by ray/adam ✸; ; Report

ꨄ︎ HALES !! ₍⑅ᐢ..ᐢ₎

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DUDE THE EMOJIS R SO CUTE ASWELL..... GRAHHH WHYD THEY NEEDA SNATCH THEM...


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angel/luna/luka ˚ʚ♡ɞ˚ 🍀

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i saw some proshipers on this website. like 2 days ago?


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Isa

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The emoji combos look so cute too :(


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Ayden

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Uhuh.... alright.


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decomposinginmyroom365

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based


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WiNTERiZER

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Based post. Say it louder for the people in the back!


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guh

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i really thought proshippers would stay on tiktok but that was a stupid thought on my part because nothing is sacred


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I read that with Spongebob's voice.

by Ayden; ; Report

bastard

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📚☕ - age gap
meaning age gap is ridiculous


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scarcrossed

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no proshipper on earth uses these - someone who knows


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Believe me, I've seen proships using at least a couple of them. I knew them personally and they told me about proshipping

by ☆VAMPBOYMATT☆; ; Report

in my experience, proshippers mocked people who spread ‘these are proship emojis’ more than anything. maybe it’s a new wave of them, good to know

by scarcrossed; ; Report

No clue, maybe they themselves are divided on whether to use them or not, but I've seen the 🍖🌈 and 🥩🌈 combinations being used by actual proships

by ☆VAMPBOYMATT☆; ; Report

KO/TKO 🍉

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proshipper more like proshitter


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did u know proshippers also call themselvez proshitterz az a joek

by wolfie.mp4; ; Report

NO I DIDNT??

by KO/TKO 🍉; ; Report

its good they know they are shit then ig

by KO/TKO 🍉; ; Report

schfart schfartzer mcschfartington

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why is there someone defending this shit here


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Bell<3

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FYI just wanna clarify,IF I EVER USE THESE EMOJIS IM NOT A PROSHIPPER I JUST LIKE CUTECORE


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so put the emojis and at the same time put it on your profile that you use because it's cutecore and you dont are a proshipper. people may get confused and throw unnecessary hate at you.

by Tomatooosemi2; ; Report

Bell<3

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FYI just wanna clarify,IF I EVER USE THESE EMOJIS IM NOT A PROSHIPPER I JUST LIKE CUTECORE


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Bell<3

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FYI just wanna clarify,IF I EVER USE THESE EMOJIS IM NOT A PROSHIPPER I JUST LIKE CUTECORE


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𝙱𝙸𝙶𝙶𝙴𝚂𝚃𝚆𝙾𝚄𝚂𝙴𝚁✮

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Did those vile monsters really have to claim 🍓🍰 those r my fav emojis


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yukari

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I havent used this website in so long and there's proshippers?! What happened to everyone on this site being people who miss myspace, mcbling, or scene people?? D:


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right im in shock

by xxkosuwrld; ; Report

yukari

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I havent used this website in so long and there's proshippers?! What happened to everyone on this site being people who miss myspace, mcbling, or scene people?? D:


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