Question for the culture

The global phenomenon, the cultural trope, the ultimate fantasy. The Lolita experience- the younger woman and older man dynamic. I know many that yearn to be the light of an older gentlemen's life, the fire of his loin. But why is this? And why is the idea of heart shaped glasses and a lollipop to match, so sweet? 

I plunged head-first into the perverted romance and was left surprised at my discovery. Psychology suggests the desire for this iconic dynamic originates in childhood...With squirt porn. 

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