Entry 8

recently coming to terms with the fact my partner in my importantship (the term i use as an aromantic person with a "partner") is a liar?? and extremely hypocritical.

he recently broke up with his gf and calls her manipulative and an emotional abuser, and doesnt want any of our friends talking with her because he doesnt want to associate with her. which is understandable. but tell me why he thinks it's okay to try and be friends with MY abuser?? he confided in her about his issues, vented to her, and admitted that he knew he shouldn't have done it but because it actually felt genuine and comforting he didn't care. im so?? am i right to be upset about it?

and not only that, i asked him politely why he would do that and his excuse was "it's not like im asking you to be friends with her or anything" which is not the point? then told me i need to explicitly tell him what i wanted, as if it had to be a question on the first place. so i asked him not to talk with her cause i dont want her to have any tie to my life. and he said okay, he would respect that. except he didnt! he lied and continued to text her, even telling her that i asked them not to speak anymore. and i just, idk how to really feel about him right now...