When someone wants to die on SpaceHey

People go onto SpaceHey looking for help because they need a support system. Aren't we supposed to help people when they have something wrong? If someone is having a breakdown and needs help, don't just ignore them because things like that can lead so self harm and suicide. Also, people don't just stick with one emotion their whole life. If someone is sad at one time and then later in the day feel fine, it's just basic emotion. No one can feel one singular emotion forever. 

When someone comes onto SpaceHey feeling like they want to self harm or worse, please try to help them if you can. Please do not call people attention seekers for needing help or encourage them to self harm or die. This is not helpful. 

Look out for people being bullied. When people feel bad, it could be the result of bullying. When someone is feeling bad, ask if someone has said something to them or if they are being encouraged to self harm by anyone. If it turns out this is the case, make sure to support them and get their bully blocked/banned to keep more people safe. 


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RezidentSunshine

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Most of the time these type of people block comments, so it's impossible to help them.
Besides that, the truth is, life is suffering. It's just a loop of ups and downs, mostly downs, for most.


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don't take ur pessimism on my blog

by P r i n c e s s; ; Report

Lol, what? Don't tell me how to think or how to perceive actual reality.

Fine, I'll just block you! Happy now?

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yes

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Lauren Waters

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You're so cool! I don't think that read something like this before. So nice to search out anyone with some authentic thoughts on this subject.
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BAHAHHAH

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Jackets? Srsly

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☮donchan420🍜

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no fuck you ppl can do whatever they want no one owes anyone anything


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op doesn't say that you must help any1 its just a piece of advice 2 be a good person

by marf rest; ; Report

" try to help them if you can. Please do not call people attention seekers for needing help or encourage them to self harm or die. This is not helpful. "

by ☮donchan420🍜; ; Report

>_try_ to help
>if you can
there isn a word saying you _must_ do anything dude its just about choice to be a good person

by marf rest; ; Report

mhm

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i also had a friend that comited suicide because people were bullying him irl and in spacehey


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Yeah this is why people should help

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SteppedupnScratched

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They are calling them attention seekers most of time . Because most of them are attention seekers...But I do agree with everything u are saying


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Thank you

by P r i n c e s s; ; Report

1 everyone is an attention seeker because humans are social and need it to function, 2 why risk it 3 if someone is lying abt that for attention thats a sign that bad stuff has happened to them
(not meant to be rude)

by scenemo.mess666; ; Report

yuh

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Jay Star ☆

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I think a lot of people doesn't have anyone to talk with, so they just write here like me. It's easy to say ''go find help'' or things like that but it's not that easy because not everyone has that privilege, maybe because of money or family problems.

I know we are not psychologists but if you see someone asking for recommendations or what they should do in x case, if you can help with some words it's okay.

We maybe can't save anyone all the time but this world needs kind people that share kind words, and maybe sharing those words you help someone.


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duh

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ᴋᴀʏɪᴀ 🌝

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honestly i got alot of 'tw' 'mentions of:' stuff and i just thought kinda 'why dont u just get help from another site?'


but i agree tbh


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Moru

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Although I don't agree with going out of your way to make things worse or calling someone an attention seeker, no one should feel obligated to respond so someone's personal issues. Everyone has their own and is not always suited for that kinda thing. It could impact the receiving end badly as well.


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Bruh, that's not what I'm sayin

by P r i n c e s s; ; Report

"don't just ignore them because things like that can lead so self harm and suicide" you did

by Moru; ; Report

i fucking did dumbass

by ☮donchan420🍜; ; Report

hm

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STURMGEWEHR44

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i'd say if you're in a bad condition please do everyone favor and keep off the internet.

unless its 4chan. when it counts, those anons are based and friendly as ever.


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yea agreed

by Kitter Kesh☆; ; Report

now from the top, make it drop that's a worship and prayer

by P r i n c e s s; ; Report

lmaoooooooooo i didnt get it at first i stared at my screen blankly for a while xDDD

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Ms Myspace

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It's the state of the internet unfortunately. If someone's starting to seem overwhelmed or close to the brink, people take it to make fun of them or treat it like their personal failure. You don't have to try to save everyone but the least you could do is not make shit worse.

Most spaces on the internet nowadays are a lot more hostile and I think with the flood of people from TikTok, Spacehey's no longer as chill as it once was.


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BRO IKR LIKE Y'ALL- just talk abt eating oreos again

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I҉s҉ i҉t҉ W҉i҉r҉a҉?҉

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girl i aint anyone's therapist, suicide is a very real thing but why am i obligated to save some random bredda from jumping of a bridge while im sitting in math class.
if they needed actual real life help they could've called someone who lives near them, because i cant stop anyone from committing thru my macbook.


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When

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based

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RIVER !! ♡

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i completely agree- sometimes (especially with myself, personally) people just need to speak about their issues with someone who may not be their friend, or people may not be available to speak to and they need some kind of help. sure, sometimes it may not be best to help people- but that is completely up to your OWN personal judgement as YOU are the one helping them if you so choose. if you personally are not in the right place to help someone, don't! you'll end up damaging them and yourself in the process

essentially, help people when you are in the right place to do so. if someone needs some kind of professional help that you cannot provide, give them access to that help and support them through it. DO NOT ACT AS A THERAPIST IF YOU ARE NOT QUALIFIED TO BE ONE !!!!
sending love to everyone


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IKRRRRRR

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Maqsud101

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I helped someone once, 2 years later she kicked me in the butt. And believe me, it takes hours a day to help someone with psychological problems. I am a pessimist, I approach realistically, if you want help, I am definitely not the person you would approach. I think it's not functional for someone as lost as me to help. You need professional help. While writing this article, I had a hard time not to think pessimistically.


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Don't bring your pessimism onto my blog please

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cesar

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it is extremely hard to help them since you don't personally know 99% of them, but i do sympathize with them since i know how hard it is to truly find help these days


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At least try

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Eden

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i wouldn't recommend personally helping these people yourself, i would encourage them to visit a hotline or the trevor project. its not anyone responsibility but professionals to talk someone out of suicide or self harm. there is a difference between someone needing to vent and someone whos in a dangerous situation.

here are some resources you can give to people who you think are in a bad or dangerous situation. ive used them personally they are very helpful.

Trevor project hotline: 1-866-488-7386
Trevor project text: 678-678
Their website: https://www.thetrevorproject.org

i find this resource a bit more helpful than the national suicide hotline for when im just feeling helpless or i feel like im gonna do something. but if you feel as if the person your talking to is in danger of taking their life please refer them to a hotline. its a quick google search.


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With some people hotlines just don't work for them

by P r i n c e s s; ; Report

yeah seriously, who actually calls those things when they are actually struggling? People who are actually on the edge of killing themselves will usually not want to reach out. They want to be left alone or will be waiting for someone to actually be there. The best thing someone can have is a good friend, because good friends ARE therapists.. except you don't have to pay them!

by Mitch; ; Report

I only did once

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𝟜𝕡𝕣𝕚𝟟

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ppl usually ignore them because there are so many people in the same state, they can't help everyone and they aren't always therapists. I don't know if you would be surprised how much of your time it takes up to convince EVERYONE that life is worth living when we hardly like this failing society ourselves These individuals can always talk to their friends or family abt these things or anything else, but asking strangers onm the internet, ur asking strangers on the internet yk


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I'm not saying you have to help EVERYONE but at least try

by P r i n c e s s; ; Report

Well that was applying to ppl who like want 2 die n shit because that's a very complex thing to break down. If someone is just going through hard times and whatever and just wants to be happy, then totally I try and make them feel better

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