boys

so I meet this cute boy online he slides in my DMS saying I'm cute I look on his insta he's kinda hot but he's kinda ugly but I don't mind tbh ugly and so we talk for some time he's a huge flirt and he might have sent me a pic and he tells me he loves me and I did too here is the thing he's a bit of a red flag but I like red flags and we talk and then he tells me (what are we are ) I told him idk bc we called and did sum it happens a couple of times other than that he calls me randomly saying he scared he might self harm again he's like 3 years clean he's like panicking and shit I try to calm him down after calming him down he tells me some stuff like why he started and I tell him some stuff about my past and self-harm  after a while were both tired and we fall asleep on the call a couple of days later he says that he not inserted for a relationship in school like in 3rd bloock we werent even daiting but those word urt me so much bc he would say (i love you) to me all the time idk what to do about him