Neurotypicals need to shut up

I have some type of neurological disorder because i follow with all of traitz like trouble focusing, zoning out, getting really really interested in sumthing, stimming, i have a hard time depicting tone, and i struggle to understand people body language! A lot of people with a mental disability think i have something (autism/adhd being what people think) and when people call me annoying, weird, or rude they all say the traitz that make me think of neurodivergent! Itz so annoying >:'/