Discord + homophobia (?)

I'm lit so upset rn. 

So aparently i was in some stupid discord server and some random guy joined.

And he started to asking weird questions like "are you all femboys or straight." and after some members said theyre femboys (which obviously is nothing bad!) he started asking like "why are u a femboy?" and when they said then bc they like being a femboy and because they think its cute or wtv and he just said then "well thats not a real reason, tell me why".

and he didnt stop asking for like 1 h or something, like wtf is ur problem.

but not only that, he also tried to force some weird stereotypes onto ppl, saying being a femboy is not manly and that it is a normal thing to be homophobic as a boy and when not ure not manly enough, idk just weird

and atp i was just like "ok, someone ban him pls."

but guess who got banned, not this homophobic guy, not me either, but the person who was a femboy. and atp its just disappointing me.

an even tho it was my fav server, i left. bc wtf IT WAS SO OBVIOUS THAT HE WAS BEING DISRESPECTFUL AND THEY STILL DEFEND HIM AND SAY THAT HE CAN'T BE HOMOPHOBIC.

LIKE ARE WE BRAINDEAD??!

and in the end they even say to the guy "sorry for the argument" HELLO?! HE STARTED THIS ARGUMENT, WTF IS WRONG WITH UU

ok sorry, but im so disappointed rn 

now bye, have a great day yall! <3