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Rant! (can anyone relate??)
So, i have this guy "friend". Some months ago he love bombed me for a week then leaving me cold. Just some weeks ago hes been slowly talking to me again, saying simple stuff like "how are you?" and "hows ur day?". I was pretty hurt when he had left me last time but I felt guilty not answering him so i did.
From then on he usually would talk to me, small talk. But yesterday he actually wanted to call so we did, he was really like nice to me. Acted just the same when he love bombed me. I feel like im just letting myself into his sick little game all over again, and the worst part of it is that i like it? I kinda like this feeling of being used basically, and deep down ik it sounds so wrong and it is!
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R A S N D A L
It would need much more details about it tho,does he usually do this ? Like a endless cycle of love bombing then being cold ? Or it's just the first time,if first time then probably he had something going on with him in his life that he didn't tell you about that made him turn cold all of a sudden for everyone not just you , if it's a cycle,learn how to let go and try to find someone that would love you unconditionally there are some out there but ur eyes might be not noticing them ,good luck and if u need more help I might be able to provide some
His friend told me he was also talking to another girl that first week, so might have been sum to do with that
by Lila; ; Report
Ye I think he is just trying his luck he is not clearly into you for "YOU" and also you are quite young I don't think someone will truly love you at the same age it might be just a temporary crush and then leave and ur heart might end up broken ,so probably cut that guy off and focus on just having friends only ,and it's normally to feel the way you are feeling in wanting appreciation and love and attention but don't let it be the thing that drives ur judgment on others
by R A S N D A L; ; Report
oh wow i would have never thought about it that way. Thanks that really helped ill try and focus on myself more!
by Lila; ; Report
Glad it helped :D
by R A S N D A L; ; Report
Pareidolia
I think you should probably cut him off