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At this point in my life I'm pretty much responsible for my own actions, appearance and overall how i present myself, but I'm wondering if maybe I'm too masculine. I keep comparing myself to the girls at my school and i wish i was like them, but I'm not comfortable with the tight clothes of log nails, basically the things that make them "girly". I've only worn three female fitted clothes in my life and it was so uncomfortable for me. The only conclusion that would explain what I'm feeling i guess would be if I'm nonbinary or something, but even if i was my family would hate me or at least thing somethings wrong with me, I'm just really confused.
am i girly enough??
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GdsFvBnd
I love wearing fancy dresses on special occasions,( most a line as I hate form fitting), but on a regular basis I tend to wear pretty masc casual clothes, I have people questioning my gender and sexuality on a regular basis, so I'm used to it. It comes with the punk territory lol.
But Ong I don't give a flying fck what anyone else thinks. I wanna look like me, not someone else's version of me.
Keegskrazybunz
I have grown up with the same struggles and also posted a blog similarly dealing with the same issues a few moments ago. I want to tell you every woman is beautiful no matter what and if you identify as a woman there is no right way to being a woman and everything “feminine” is a social construct made up by mysognist who believed women needed to be taken down a peg. You’re doing great!!
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a girl or a woman isn't made of "girly interests" or clothing that is traditionally seen as feminine. You can use anything you want and present yourself however you feel like, that doesn't make you any less of a woman :D
the only thing that matters is staying true to yourself, fuck all of society's little boxes and constructs. also even if you don't identify that much as a girl who cares gender is pretty much a scam made by bathroom companies to sell more bathrooms