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sometimes i really regret being born a guy. it feels like girls have it easier when it comes to life, social stuff, and friendships. they always seem to have someone — like, every girl in my class has a close friend, no one’s really alone. but guys… we just stay lonely. i mean, i have two friends, but i don’t really feel close to them. we talk, but it’s like i’m not interesting to anyone. i think there are way more lonely guys than lonely girls, at least in my class.
and i’m sorry if this sounds weird, but i’m honestly curious what it feels like to have a girl’s body. it’s embarrassing to say, but i’ve always wondered how it feels, you know… living without what i’ve had between my legs my whole life.
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I think you have a very mistaken idea of what it's like to be a woman. I'm telling you this as a man, and honestly, no one has it easier. I'm quite introverted, so my list of friends is very small, but I'm aware that many guys also have few friends, and there are also many girls who are lonely. It's fine if you're trans because you want to be a girl and you like the idea of being one, and that's how you feel... I mean... A GIRL. BUT if you want to be a girl because you think it's easier, then you're wrong. Historically, women haven't had any advantages, and even today they fight for a fair place in society.Take it as advice
Sody
Lonely girls exist! I'm one of them. Sure its easy for me to make friends because 1. i am a girl, and we are just seen as nonintimidating. and 2. because I'm friendly and not super shy. But yet i still feel like i don't have a real connection to any of the people i meet. Girls also lose friends much easier than guys do. I have some male friends who have had the same close knit circle since they were in primary school. I have gone through and gone back to friends for years. Sometimes, its worse than a breakup.
Also i don't think its weird to wonder what it physically feels like to be the opposite gender. I feel that way all the time. But i also love being a girl. Sometimes i do wish i was a man due to the physical strength you just naturally get. I'm so envious. -3-
In your situation, i feel you just need to try and socialize more. Don't be afraid to spark convos w ppl, just don't be too pushy. You also need to put a lot of time into people in order for them to feel like a close friend. Which personally i struggle with. Find someone cool that you can relate to and stick w em. :) hope this helps a bit!!
Charles
K so uuh... Just wanna say da being born any gender z hard anyway. Myb, if u can, since u said u dont have lots of friends, u can try being friends w girls ? I'm bad at helping so dont juge plz lol, im kinda doing my best. Oh n myb the wanna be a girl thing z just a phase, myb not, but dont stay 2 long on it, u gonna be kinda stuck l8er w it (happened 2 me as a trans guy bruh).
Srry if I sounded mean btw, dont want to. Have a gud l8f
slowdive
I wouldn’t blame you I feel like being a girl is the best thing in the world if reincarnation is real I’d want to be a girl in every life it’s so beautiful! Be true to yourself!
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Maybe you're trans, or maybe you just wanted to be a girl because you perceived it as easy. And, being a woman, let me tell you:it's definitely not easy being a woman!
Alexx D
Real I have gender envy too
❥nwx
hoping and praying you don't turn into those people who want to be woman/girl in a fetishizing way. your life will not get better if you change genders, news flash, it might just get worse LOL. not saying you are these people, and you seem young, so I hope you find your light in the chaos. (also a women/girl is more than what is between their legs..*cough*)
True.
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And it really does seem to be something kind of fetishistic.
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truly though
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❥nwx
can't really regret being born a gender when you had no choice in it
jojo
i would suggest getting a good therapist to talk about your feelings and stuff.
basicallylolo
Ok
Bennett
I think you may be trans. I'm trans and felt a similar thing just the other way around. Obviously, i can't tell you who you are but i think you may want to consider thinking abt it
☆Sammy the loser☆
… the egg is cracking???
Isla_isnt_here_XD
Being a girl is so scary.
Drama is the worst thing that can happen to a girl.
Periods suck.
to be fair periods arent limited to women
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Right!! The drama i must endure is the most stressful thing in my life. Especially since i hate confrontation and i never speak up for myself so i just never know how to respond to things!!
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~nykku
same :(
Gaby
Y yo desearía haber nacido hombre estamos iguales espero que mejores
Gigi
Heyy I’m really sorry your going through this right now but thought it seems girls have it eaiser we are in the same position I have always felt alone in my class and to me it seems guys have it better but in reality we are all just trying to figure out how to be people.
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OwlK1sses
hey, I'm sorry yr going through this right now. i know that there are a lot of guys out there who may just feel the same way you do (ik for sure since i saw another guy comment that haha). however, i do wanna say that even though it may *look* like girls have it easy, some are in the exact same position as you! what im trying to say is that not everything you see is exactly as you think it to be. i'm sure down the road you can make more meaningful connections with other guys, girls and whoever else- someone is out there for you! oh, and being curious about what someone elses bits are like( that arent like yr own) is so real!! i'm personally just so curious cuz i have no idea what its like!!
Ash
By the way, if you want to be, you *can* be a girl. I'm not saying that you are one or trying to pressure you or anything, but I think it may be something worth looking into. If you haven't heard the term before, it's transgender.
Regardless of gender, I think everyone experiences loneliness and it does eventually get better, I promise you. You will find your people.
super silly fellow!!! (Sanitarium)
i'm sorry but with you using he/him rn, all roads lead to Rome. (turns into rabbit and points at pocketwatch)
all roads lead to rome.
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Kristen
yall are queer