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SpaceHey people rant /TW?/

>I used to love this WEBSITE, but (like the rest of the INTERNET) some people just use this site to be CATEGORY THREE JERKs.

 >I understand a lot of people use this WEBSITE to vent/rant etc…and sometimes just be STUPID online (I’d be a HYPOCRITE if I didn’t admit to doing this.) But people seem to post things without even trying to think LOGICALLY about how it could affect someone.

 >It’s pretty PETTY to put something on your PROFILE targeted at someone and to put them on blast like that instead of trying to SOLVE it out with them first (seriously, atleast RESPOND to them.)

>[I did not want to put the people who did this on blast since it’s supposed to be a GENERAL EXAMPLE. Please do not consider that I’m out for these SPECIFIC people, this is meant to be applied to any SpaceHey JERK.]

>It’s pretty WEIRD to post about how you ‘don’t understand’ SUBJECTS like self harm, depression, suicide but you ‘see the APPEAL’. (please stop glorifying that stuff people !)

>And it’s also pretty shitty to repeatedly fish for >ATTENTION< (no I do not mean repeatedly VENTING, you are not fishing for >ATTENTION< if you do, and I hope it gets BETTER, my ims are open to >ANYONE<.) but never even spare something as simple as an ‘I hope you get better’ when someone else is going through SOMETHING in their life. No, you aren’t obligated to RESPOND to people’s vent or rants, but it doesn’t mean you get to always be the CENTER OF >ATTENTION<.

> this mostly applies to every media on the internet but the BULLETINS and STATUSES on SpaceHey seem to >AMPLIFY< this type of BEHAVIOUR

> please be MINDFUL of what you post about OTHERS, VAGUE statuses INFURIATE me to no end, seriously man. Stop it !! Right now!! And grow up!!


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aesop

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yooo stranger on spacehey just want you to know i appreciate you making this post sm cuz you laid these things out so well, and i agree w what you said cuz u made your arguments really balanced here! i'm also all for venting / sharing unfiltered thoughts online bcs ppl gotta bottle up irl, but it's not an excuse to traumatise/dox OTHER people on this platform! much love to you hope your day is good <3


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i appreciate this message so so much, and i appreciate you too for for readng it! And being balances was my goal, so im glad it showed trough my arguments since i was trying to show slight nuance, since i believe spacehey can be an amawing social web to make friends. i hope your day is good asweel and i thank you for this comment that made my day better!

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awww thank you for the well wishes !

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GOAT

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i been doin my part to bring balance to the force

its a tough battle but i do whut i can <33


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wait i love you

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