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I need a little help, I've been in love with this guy for several months and he was in love with me, supposedly, but recently he broke my heart telling me that it was all a lie, maybe it was a bet, idn but he has made me feel very bad and I want your opinions and what I can do about it so I don't love him anymore and continue hurting myself.
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Lavia_Val🩵
Oof this a bit of a tough one but I'll try like always ^^' All these would depend on how close you consider him and some what if scenarios (u can answer theses for yourself since these r for u,so don't feel pressured to share answers ^^)
1.is he a best friend? or at least in the close friend circle? if hes not someone you see in your mind in the future or barely rhink hell make an impact or anything like that then maybe its a no for this one..
2.Do you think you could forgive anyone else if they said this to you? if no then maybe you shouldn't favor him because he's a long time crush. now do you think u could forgive him for saying that if he were to then say it was a joke or nothing serious?
3.Will you take some distance from him? I get if u cant stop thinking about him because of this,its valid honestly almost like overthinking because you keep thinking of it. even if your not close,try doing something for yourself and just you,after like-lets say a week,are you much calmer with him out of the way?
I was gonna say let reality hit you since I did nut my situation wasn't similar with yours therefore idk if it would still apply but I hope my words brought some sort of comfort at least,surely not the best but I still tried T^T
Good night from where I am^^
Well, to answer the first question, yes, he's someone in my closest social circle. This person has a strong impact on me.
As for the second question, the truth is I'm taking a huge risk. Even though I really want to not forgive that person, I always forgive him, and it's not the first time, since I've already forgiven him several times.
Yes, from how I feel right now, I've distanced myself a lot from him. The truth is, he even asked me what was wrong, why we don't hang out or talk more often. It's worth noting that we're classmates. I just told him I was more focused on my studies than before.
Thank you very much for your questions and your opinion. They made me think a lot, which is why I responded late.
Greetings from here. 🤍
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gabriela
Girl, if you know he's a bad person and you still love him, there's nothing we can do. My only recommendation is that you choose yourself over him, and no matter how much you love him, don't try to get romantically involved with him because you know you'll end up hurt. Let time pass; it's difficult, but little by little, that strong emotion will disappear.
Thank you very much for your opinion, I will take it into account, since it is horrible to feel this that leaves me blank 🤍
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