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okay so i’ve been BFFs with this girl since like 4th grade and we’re suuuuper close like hang-out-every-single-day-and-text-every-single-day-and-tell-each-other-everything type close, right??
but like ever since summer break started, she’s been so dry… and like a lot of times she js doesn’t reply and she only is like not dry when she’s yapping abt her interests but when i wanna share mine or just talk abt like what im doing or wtv, it’s like talking to a brick wall…
and so one day i brought it up to her, and she went on a massive rant basically venting to me abt her life, and i felt really bad for her because it was about her family life and mental health and stuff and it was really heavy so i comforted her and everything. but TLDR, she was saying that she was being dry because she didn’t have the energy or like feel happy enough to act happy, to which i was very understanding and basically said like don’t force it yk and im always here yadayada
but like… it’s lowkey really annoying and kinda exhausting to deal with, but i dealt with it because she’s my bff and i understand that she’s going thru a lot, yk??
but then i checked her twitter… and so she has a lot of twitter friends, right? and her tweets and stuff communicating with them were so… NOT DRY?? like she seemed happy and energetic and whatever and i’m like what??? bc she’s not like this with me!!!
idk if i did smth or what?? bc ive been rlly nice and always listening to her vent and comforting her and being just very normal and friendly, but she treats me like she doesn’t even gaf abt our friendship, all the while putting it sm effort with her online friends…
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EmoMike666
It's just people changing because thats how you grow up as a human being. You might be thinking about it too much too. The human mind might not even have a clear thinking path just doing as she feels with no clear reason.
damn ur prob right . just feels weird like her only being dry to me — her bff — and not to her random online friends
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seeing this already told me you were young and checking ur profile u say ur 14. At this point of your life it’s completely normal to feel like this and start going through the ups and downs of teenage life! I’ve also lost a lot of friendships in this period of my life and the best thing I did was give them space, allowing you to change your way of thinking and even grow as a person. Maybe you two come back later and talk it out and still be friends, or maybe you just grow apart. That’s just how people work; yes it hurts, but it’s necessary. Be honest and talk about it, vulnerability and honesty are your best tools to deal with this!
waow tysm!!! i hope we can talk it out but yeahhh you’re right
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