Why Being A Pick Me Girl Is BAD For Society: Pick Me Girl Culture, Social Media & TikTok Influencer Drama & Psychology Behind The Term

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Pick Me Girl Culture, Influencer Drama & Psychology (DEEP-DIVE) Capitalism & True Crime... Today I talk to you about, The Problem with Pick Me Girls and Why as Society it is a HUGE MAJOR Problem as a whole, I talk about, “pick-me girl” wants nothing more than to set herself apart from other women, even if that means embracing the male gaze and denouncing the parts of herself that are inherently associated with femininity. The term "pick-me girl" is used to describe women who seek male approval, often at the expense of other women often being directly outright derogatory towards other women Psychology Today states this behavior is seen as a sign of internalized misogyny, a “pick me girl” will place value on activities, interests, and habits traditionally championed by straight, cisgender, heterosexual men—sometimes, to their own detriment, In a nutshell, subconsciously or intentionally, a “pick me girl’s” hope is to garner attention from the men she knows by distancing herself from all other women and their “cringe,” feminine behaviors. Instead, they zero in on stereotypical masculine interests and takes, She may claim to prefer male company, citing that women cause ‘too much drama.’ or are too catty and why they don't have any women friends", The term “pick-me” first started on Twitter which was used to mock women who fall under the “guys’ girl” category, especially those who consider themselves to be “wifey” material, The "Pick Me" to "Boy Mom" Pipeline is REAL and highly problematic he moms who say "You don't know complete, true, unconditional love until you have a son" are very openly admitting that they do not have this kind of love for their daughters Its the same women who will tell their daughters boys who are mean like them. The blatant pick me misogyny, Pop culture participates in pick-me culture too, as seen in the lyrics “Cause she wears short skirts, I wear T-shirts. She’s cheer captain, and I’m on the bleachers” - “You Belong With Me” by Taylor Swift, Proponents of conservative pick-me culture post and say absurdly traditionalist things like “She’s out partying with her friends, but I could make him a home cooked meal every night.” The common theme among this most problematic version of pick-me culture is that it serves to disempower women on a systemic level in addition to the toxic competitiveness  of trying to be better than other women for male validation, She resorts to making bad comments or putting other women down in general about other girls to eliminate competition for male attention, being a pick me girl is the opposite of a girls girl

NOW HERE ARE SOME PRIME EXAMPLES OF Celebrities & Social Media and TikTok INFLUENCERS as a whole who display pick me girl attributes, Bonnie Blue is the stage name for a 25-year-old British adult content creator This is not female empowerment, this is objectification She's been called out for encouraging men to treat women as objects, for glorifying misogynistic behaviors and more, Bonnie Blue planned a "petting zoo" event, Raven Sparks grooming allegations, Ash Trevino she to feeling intense jealousy to one of her daughters Trevino’s history of toxic relationships extends beyond her inmate-hopping days. Trevino has a pattern of emotionally seeking out unavailable or physically distant partners, which shows her self-destructive cycle Trevino’s daughters have repeatedly expressed feeling so ashamed and embarrassed by their mother that they’ve chosen to run away from home. On multiple occasions they left, yet Trevino didn’t even seem to notice their absence In many Hispanic households, misogyny runs deep, often leading to stark differences in how sons and daughters are raised. Boys are often left with more leniency, while it’s the opposite for girls, they are expected to take on the role of a “second mom,” responsible for cooking, cleaning, and enduring more discipline, Nicki Minaj the rapper has been accused of being a massive pick me girl, The Public criticism and scrutiny Nicki Minaj has faced due to her association with individuals accused of or convicted of sexual offences in the court of law and true crime cases and other social media influencers, ETC!!!