[30/06/25] shitty rant about bi erasure that might get me killed

Hi, I'm Painter. I'm a bisexual achillean guy or whatever. I wanna talk about how everything seems to be in a way where bisexual erasure is the most popular outcome

You've definitely seen girls who've called themselves a lesbian while dating men right.? These women often hold hatred for bisexuals, saying they aren't bisexual for no logical reasons

Even in queer fandoms, bisexuals are seen as lesser than lesbians. I've seen headcanons of characters being lesbians just for liking women, when it's possible that they could be bisexual.

I've seen people who just say " You either like one thing or the other thing, you can't like both! " and acting like bisexuals are just sex addicts (my own mother for example)

I've heard people ask my friends if they were lesbians, being told they're bisexual, and saying " Oh, that's even worse! "

I've seen people talk about how bisexuals are gonna cheat on them, or how they're lesser for liking men.... or people insulting bisexual women for dating a man who could very well be queer, because it's " straight " and these people do not respect bisexual people in " straight" relationships

It all comes down to purity culture. People think that if a man has been with you, that as a woman, you're no longer pure. And a lot of biphobic behaviour just expresses this belief

slightly unrelated but

I hate that this world still believes in hatred and stuff, miserable people infighting in the lgbtq community because they've got nothing to do. Why does it matter who threw the first brick when everyone participated? Everyone protested, you guys treat pride month like a celebration and not a protest that's why there's so many people who are transphobic while being gay and biphobic being queer. You will not gain anything from hating your queer siblings. It doesn't matter if they're more privileged or not because at the end of the day you will ignore those who are less privileged than you and you will keep on hating your queer siblings 

A lot of people have got to mature. I was told to mature for telling my mum that she is transphobic, that I've got to respect everyone's opinions, that I'm some extremist. You've all got to change your ways of hating on people for the sake of it, not me. I don't care if you keep your opinion to yourself. You aren't any better than people who go " WELL, I HAVE A BLACK FRIEND, I CAN'T BE RACIST "