why did we normalize bullying

ITS A STUPID RANT

I'm actually asking how we as a society let bullying become so normal? Like what? I'm genuinely curious how we a society looked at different ppl and went hmm not like us BULLYING  like what all the fun abt us is that that we are all different we have different obbeies we have different blood type different hair different style even different skin color we act different and thats ok thats what makes us fun being all the same is boring is not fun n just bc somone is a lil different from you you bully them why? Why not let them be happy with how they look and how they act? It's ok to be different, like why don't of you talk to them just bc all of you are bullying and harassing them, just bc, like wth? Bro let ppl be ppl let kids be kids let them be who they be when i got bullied i changed my whole style n personailty so ppl would like me frcing myself to be mainstream n listen to music i dont like c ppl told me its good its mainstream n to understand what my friemds were talking abt i didnt like myself of the life i lived n until like the middle of 2024 i wasnt myself until i actually found friends who love me for who i am n let me change n be myself n even loved me more bc i was happier cuz i became my self but why why did i change only bc i ppl didnt like me? all bc i wasnt mainstream even if im not mainstream that doesnt change who i am i am still the same sky with a different style i cant say there werent struggles for not being mainstream after i was plus popular there were sturrgles i was alone until i found my ppl who are also considered weirdos i got bullied n barked on i moved schools n found myself only bc of my style? But even tho the bullying im so much happier bc im myself so was i scared bc of the SOCIETY the society is fucked up like bffr its normal bullying ppl who are "different" i was scaerd bc society said different is weird is not ok they shouldnt be different not mainstream not apart of us n why why from a young age she put into our children head only mainstream since childhood we put it into their head and other subcjet bullying ppl bc they are gay..... oh this one makes my blood boil love is love GET OUT but anyways please we as a society should make bullying unromalized again. Let be ppl be themselves and mide your own fucking business n let a person be