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How to find friends

Yeah, I'm asking this question bc I just can’t seem to find any friends, either in rl or online. It’s so hard. In the last five years, I've only managed to make 1 online friend and 3 friends in rl (they go to my school), and I lost one friend this year (she was hell toxic). So in five years, I’ve only made 4 friends, and now I have around 7.5 friends. But even the 0,5  I don’t talk to her like I used to. I just say "hey" when I see she, and she say "hey" back, so I don’t even know if we’re still really friend.

I’m not ungrateful for the friends I have, but when I see other people with like 20 friends, I just don’t get it. I’ve tried to talk to people, but I feel so awkward, and I end up saying nothing because I don’t even know what I’m supposed to say. It’s just confusing.

So if you’ve read this, would you like to be my friend??? ( •̯́ ₃ •̯̀) ”


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Hanko

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Let me tell u I made 20 friends and half of them left me some slowly stop talking to me its just how this world works u makes friends you lose friends I have about 7-5 friends left it's not easy at all to make friends online and if u really want to make friends in real life go easy on yourself go to a Cafe and ask if u could sit with them and just chill and talk to them it's okay to have awkward feelings when your talking to them to it's normal it's the part that helps makes friends hope this helped someone if you ever need like a friend I'm free as well I check spacehey daily!🩷


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Uhh is this some new meme I don't understand..?!

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ALAINCVRE

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I've never really understood either and just wait for people to approach me if they think I'm cool or something and then we start talking. I used to be like you in middle school where making friends was a scary concept for me until 8th grade. Even then I still struggle talking to new people irl haha... but I get you man!!


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Literally the realest thing I've ever read. When I see people hanging out with large groups it makes me think about how my 3 or so friends dont really hang out with me outside of school. Makes me feel like they don't like me, but I'll be ur friend! (Genuinely I cannot make friends either and I'm on here just to find some)


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