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im currently over my friends with benefits house and im so happy
if only i wasn't leaving for chicago in august, i would've pursued an actual relationship with him but oh well here we are (i am losing my mind. this is a hopeless romantic's worst nightmare).
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Piko
OH MY GOD! I'm freaking amazed. I wanna hear more about your both relationship! How long have you been having this kind of relationship? Are you in love with him? How long have you been friends with benefits?
Plsss, reply to me ASAP. I'm really curious
by Piko; ; Report
HIII im so sorry i need to get better at checking this website oh my goddd. BUT!! we've been having this relationship for only about 2 months now. I came back to indy in April and we've been talking since :)
I wouldn't say I am in love with him just because I've only known him since April, but god do I like him a lot. I'm definitely a hopeless romantic so trying to stop myself from falling in love is incredibly difficult, but it's possible. As time goes on though, I probably will end up falling in love with him unfortunately.
We've been friends for all of April then it wasn't until the last week of May that we finally added the benefits part LMFAO. It took a lot of communication and figuring out each other's boundaries and past lore to get to this healthy point.
by earthydaffodils; ; Report
Gosh, that's so freaking amazing. To tell you the truth, you're not the only one hopeless romantic here, because I am too, actually. So, I really understand your feelings and that struggle not to fall in love. Personally, I don't really trust my personal view about a person. That's all because I often overly romanticise our relationship and when my feelings fade I see a whole new situation, which can be reaaaally bad, yk.
I had an experience last year, when I started dating a girl whom i thought to be really beautiful, funny and interesting. However after 1 month of dating, I realized that I totally didn't like her. As the time passed, I even felt disgusted with her. Despite my feelings, I told myself to wait a bit. I thought that I stopped liking her because I was too exhausted due to my studies. I made myself date her for OVER HALF A FUCKING YEAR. That was a literal hell for me. Everything happened because of me being a hopeless romantic and trusting those one-second feelings(
I just hope that you won't repeat my mistakes and sort out your thoughts and feelings first before making any decisions. For now, you, guys, should just spend time together and get to know each other better. (Cryin' cuz' I'm so lonely. If you're curious, I have only 1 close friend, but she's literally on the other side of the country, so we can't meet that easily)
Anyway, thanks for your reply. If it won't cause any problems to you, could you please update from time to time with some news? I'd really like to hear how everything goes<3
by Piko; ; Report