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how to feel better after losing something important

The title doesn't mean this is a tutorial. This is actually a question. Cause I have no idea of what to do.

What does someone have to do to keep living after losing something important? Even if it's a person, a place, a pet, a feeling, an object. Anything that hurts you enough.

How does someone survive that process? Do you really survive or a little part of you dies with the thing you have lost?

And the worst part is when it is unexpected. When you don't see the loss coming. That's the worst case. Because at the beginning, one doesn't quite know how life feels without it. But then time starts to kill you. Time starts to kill that little part. That place big or small in your heart, that was just for that thing or person, suddenly feels empty again. And is it possible to fill that place again? Or that's impossible? At least can you fill another place that's near to the empty one? something that is similar could take that place... Or not.

And I don't mean just death. I mean all kinds of losses. No one died in my case, just me on the inside. But just a little. Or a little too much.

Anyway, there's the question again, is it possible to survive? or is it just an illusion?...



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