queer discourse rambling

im so so so so tired of the phrase "women and enbies" like... when you say that, remember that you're including amab enbies/trans masc enbies/non-woman aligned enbies/ etc. we are not just "women-lite," if you are trying to say non-men just fucking say non-men like holy fuck. amab enbies are already treated soooo much worse than afab enbies in queer spaces, especially amab enbies that dress masc. and phrases like "women and enbies" make it very clear how you think of us. i am not a woman, i am not woman aligned. and this isn't me saying this because im a sexist andrew tate dude-bro or a pick me, im saying this because the gender dysphoria i feel when someone treats me like im a woman fucking sucks.