Sexuality ≠ Liking ones gender

Okay so before I dive in, I have to clarify that I'm trans aswell, I have been for years now, I have gone through many trans discourse and I have formed my own opinion, not really opinion but rather, I saw the truth which is hated by many. 

Sexuality is liking one or multiple sex characteristics on a person. 

So for example a straight woman is straight because she likes male characteristics, which are a male genitalia, the straight man likes female characteristics which are female genitalia and usually breasts. By this you can already guess, but someone who is straight and likes male characteristics probably won't like someone who has female characteristics even if that person labels themselves as (pre anything) trans. Yet the straight man might find them attractive due to their body. (I understand that there are trans people who had no surgeries but their face looks like the other sex, In this case they are showcasing characteristics of the other sex which can be attractive by the straight person they tryna seduce)

Again, I know sex is not a box that no one can experiment out of it and that usually labels are not correct and doesn't have to be, cuz love is love and it doesn't matter but just because a straight person likes you doesn't mean they cant see you as your gender, they just find you attractive still. Since you do have to admit that gender not always guessable on the streets and people fall in love by seeing someone attractive usually.