Relationship vent

So i've been "friends" with this guy for a few months now and i've liked him and we always said we were married but i would not tell if it was platonic or not but i think in the past few weeks its gotten romantic and i really like this dude and his personality and just everything about this fucking dude but today i was hanging out with him and then i started kind of teasing him saying his outfit was bad as a joke (I'm so fucking stuipid) and then i think he took it seriously and he was just not really being nice ig or just in the mood to hang out for the rest of the time we were together today and then he left sooner then normal and said we're divorced and i'm stupid and fucking overthinking this and i texted him saying "were you being fr?" he just said wdym and then i said like well you were not rlly being urself today im sorry if i went to far i didn't mean to and idk he left me on read and im overthinking and i just don't want to lose him as whatever we are and i'm to scared to ask what we are or what we were. :/