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soo.. i'm breaking up with a guy, he doesn't give up and he keep making me questions., the last one he did is "what happened, tell me the truth". The point is that nothing happened, our relationship was already bad and i realized that alone i'm fine, BUT i already told him this but idk he keep hasking, HELP what should i tell him?? (sorry if i'm confusing lol)
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deploygirlfriend
I'm going to first assume this is a real life scenario rather than something through text;
You're gonna need to be absolutely raw with him. Instead of telling him "nothing happened" (because even if it's "true," it's evasive,) just tell him you didn't feel like the relationship was meant for you. Point out certain aspects to him that tilted you, like if there was something he'd do or talk about that wasn't of your interest.
If you were bored in the relationship, say that.
If you felt the relationship was bad, tell him. ESPECIALLY be sure to point out his weird behaviour with all of the questions he asks.
Now, if he were to threaten you and you know this guy in-person, and assuming you're in school or live with your parents, fucking tell someone IMMEDIATELY.
This is in case he does threaten you, which is definitely a possibility and I'd like to remind you there are people you can and should contact in that case. Hell, if you're comfortable enough, you can call the cops yourself.
Now, if this is online, the easiest thing would be to block him if he continues on.
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Lillllllllllllllllllllith
Just tell him to fuck off and be done with it, you don't need a reason to be done.
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maybe tell him you felt it was a one sided relationship and it wasnt working out for you