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Quick introduction, I’m a 17 y/o cisfem that is stupid (keep that in mind, especially the stupid part).
A few days ago, I met a dude who seemed to be nice here. He claimed to be a minor as well (I can’t tell whether it’s the truth or not but from the pics he looks old enough to be called a young adult – tho at the same time ik guys usually have this “dad vibes” after puberty quicker than woman). Things escalated quickly between us because he’s down bad. I thought nothing could go worse than him speaking of his fantasies of me being his girl. I played along and feel pressured and forced to give him service (affection) incels dream of. I genuinely feel uncomfortable and even tried to tell him I’m not interested, but I wasn’t able to refuse or neglect – plus, he’s not rlly listening.
My assumptions were wrong. He told – even begged – for me to reveal our nude body, which thankfully I didn’t send anything (I replied with “I’m not ready” kind of response). However, obviously he sent me inappropriate pics a few times without me asking or agreeing for it. It was awkward. I didn’t exactly know how to respond other than to lie more and more about my consent. Yes, I’m aware of the stupidity and I wish I could rewind time and just block him immediately.
Days passed by and we also mostly talked about lustful things (he was the one who keeps initiating that kind of conversation). He also mentioned about his fantasies and it was a nightmare to know regarding it. I’m not talking about regular kinks or fetishes. He was legit the type of guy who listens to intrusive thoughts 24/7 and would probably be in jail sooner or later. I don’t rlly feel like typing this down because it’s so disgusting and I don’t want to trigger anyone too bad.
Ever since that conversation I decided to ghost him slowly while still giving bare minimum service. I prayed for any way for us to depart without me saying “no” and it got answered haha. I’m sure he noticed that lol and he blocked me the day my dad found out about my chats with him. (rlly thankful that I got grounded now).
Before moving on, I am VERY aware I am in the wrong as well for not running away ever since the first red flag. However, I couldn’t say “no” ever since the day he told me regarding;
· His sexual fantasies that implies he won’t take “no” as an answer.
o “con” noncon
o Kidnapping!!1!11 and turning me to a slave for that kind of stuff
· His talented cybersecurity skills or something
o Me and my sis believe that it’s just a bluff or something impress me
o But also I’m scared of him soooo
Anyways, I’m not sure if this is something to report about?????? Please let me know what should I do to keep myself safe, as well as any additional action that I should take regarding this.
Unfortunately, since I’m grounded, I couldn’t access my IG to screenshot some proofs on the case. But I hope I’m trustworthy enough for everyone as I’m speaking with full honesty here.
BTW I WONT BE ACTIVE HERE SO BEST TO REPLY IN MY IMs!!! It’s open for everyone!!!! I will be late on replying tho and I apologize for being dumb. Thank you for reading this!
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MetalHeart
That's really bad man I am sorry you went through that, glad you blocked him now though :-(
Reuben
I'm so sorry this happened to you!! You may already know this, but in the unfortunate case that you don't: you are NOT at fault for this. I'm sure it can be extremely hard not to blame yourself, but that person is evil, and they were bound to do something like this anyway, with you or not. Sure, you were pretty naive, but a crime way worse is to put others like you in scary situations like this.
I think you said something about not knowing if this is something worthy of a report, and my advice is that ANYTHING that has or will put you or others at risk in any way is and always will be solid grounds to report. To my knowledge, your report doesn't do anything until it is verified by whoever views and validates reports (take that with a grain of salt, I am not an expert)
I wish you fast recovery from this experience and protection from other sinister predators on this website/app. Please be safe and remember to take care of yourself <3
Dana Scully
Your first mistake was going along with it to begin with. Develop a zero tolerance policy -- the beauty of the internet is that no one can "force" you to talk to them -- literally just block them.
Exactlyyyy
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Janeth
OMG, I'm sorry you had to go through such an uncomfortable situation, reading your story made me feel the same as you did. This leaves as a lesson some things, it's sad but so are some people you can meet on the internet. Don't feel guilty about what happened, you just wanted to start a friendship and you did your best to stay friends but it didn't turn out the way you expected. I hope you feel better after this traumatic event.
//CELPHINE'S
pls block wtf hope you get outta there
I did but I'm getting the consequencesss
by ermwhatthesigma; ; Report
Omg whats going awn now
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No more phoneee
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FOULL
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𝑺𝑪𝑳𝑷𝑻𝑼𝑹𝑬𝑺
don't apologise, people like that will insist on getting what they want just to make you feel selfish if you decline. it doesn't matter how old he was, you clearly weren't comfortable with it and he kept going
True that
thank you so much for the reassurance
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picklerick420
that is awful im so sorry
yeaa it be like that sometimes, it's ok tho!! i'm fine for rn
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୭ 🧷 ✧˚. ᵎᵎ 🎀Andre ୭ 🎀 ✧˚. ᵎᵎ 📎
girl are you okay thats really bad :(
yea im okay!! just losing my privileges on the internet and it's ok cause i'm being sneaky
by ermwhatthesigma; ; Report
Aaaaaand therein lies the problem x.x So your parents took away your internet because it's a legitimate safety concern and at 17 you haven't learned not to talk to strangers on the internet, and now it's bit you in the ass, and you're still sneaking on it anyway? That's the kind of childish behavior that shows your parents were right and you shouldn't be on the internet lmao
by Dana Scully; ; Report
True that ngl, but it's ok!! Learning experiences and stuff at least. And I'm sneaking for another reason, not exactly to talk w strangers
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